So I’ve been into chastity for a few years now and have owned several different devices during that time. My first was The Curve, back when my Kh (Key Holder) was just my girlfriend. When I brought up the topic of chastity to her, she took to it right away, marking the start of our exploration. We had fun with some T&D for a while until an incident occurred and we lost the device. (Check out that embarrassing story.) Our relationship soon went back to being vanilla. About five years later—exact timing—the CD craving returned, and she purchased what I believe is called the Jail House Metal CD with swirls. We played off and on for a few years; since my now-fiancée/Kh wasn’t into the whole chastity thing anymore, I was essentially my own Kh at first. Eventually, I got bored of it and went our separate ways, though I kept it stored away because deep down I knew I loved it! My fiancé/Kh has always disliked me masturbating. She is the type who treasures an orgasm that is shared as one; I enjoy that too, believing it’s the best kind. Fast forward to last week (4/16/2016), my HTV-2 arrived. I originally ordered the pink standard with a 45 ring but received the clear standard with the same size, which worked out fine so I didn’t complain. Later that day, I had some free time and decided to test it out. My fiancé/Kh came over for dinner (she was at her mom’s that day). I told her about my purchase and asked if she would hold the keys. I handed them to her, but she questioned whether there were only two. She showed proof that indeed only two had come with it and said no more releases that night. A few days passed, and my fiancé/Kh was in the mood, so the CD came off. After cleaning up, I put it back on quickly. The next day, I decided to buy a 50-ring version because I felt the 45 was too tight, but surprisingly, my body got used to it. (So now I have a spare 50 ring that I’ll probably sell later.) Since wearing the CD, I’ve felt a bit self-conscious about whether people can see it, but slowly I’m starting not to care if they look and spot a bulge; maybe it’s a good thing, right? Fast forward to yesterday (4/23/16), I had dinner with my fiancé/Kh and her family while locked up. I started feeling uncomfortable and wanted out—nothing was hurting or aching, just felt weird. I tried getting my fiancé/Kh in the mood but had no luck! Today we spent the day painting a room, talked things over, and thanked her because since she took the keys, I haven’t touched myself at all. She then asked when it was that I last did so before the new CD; I said three weeks ago, on the night before we had some incredible lovemaking! That night is when I decided I really need to hold out for her. Back to today: after our talk, we went to the room and enjoyed our favorite Sunday evening shows. I gave her a back rub and tried my luck; eventually, she unlocked me. She used her magic wand and got herself off before finishing up. As she finished, she let me come inside while waiting—seconds later, it was amazing! As we were just lying there, I got up to put the CD/wand away, thinking at that moment I’d return to the cage another time. But then something unexpected happened: she said, “You’re putting your cage back on!” And I said no. She replied, “Go clean yourself up and put your cage back on!” I was like, really? She responded with a firm look, so I did. She inspected it to make sure it was secure, took the keys, and put them away. Now here I am telling my story. Will this become permanent now? Has she realized the power of being Kh? IDK, but either way, I’m excited to find out where this goes.
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