Gay Dom/Sub Couple Seeking Unlocking or Release Goals

I’d like to ask this group for their thoughts on setting goals before uncaging your sub. We’re a same-sex couple deepening our Dom/sub dynamic, learning new things daily. I realize most of this forum is likely straight, but after joining here, I’ve seen that it doesn’t matter whether you’re gay or straight—chastity works the same way for both. The only real difference is which gender holds the key. As a sub in a male/male dynamic, I feel the same frustrations, horniness, satisfaction, and even morning erection pain as any straight guy does. As our relationship grows, we’re talking more about where we want to take our Dom/sub roles. We both really value what chastity adds to us. When I’m caged, my sub lust makes me crave sex much more frequently than when I’ve been uncaged for a while. Naturally, this keeps the Dom happy since he knows I’m always ready whenever he is. It’s different from being out of cage and free to jerk off randomly without any structure. During those times, our sexual connection suffers because I become non-compliant and casual about sex. Now that we’re looking to expand our dynamic, we’re figuring out the best way to set goals and guidelines for me before Dom even thinks about letting my cock out from the cage for teasing, edging, or perhaps cumming. We know every couple has different preferences, but we just need a wide range of ideas. Here are two questions I have for everyone: Do any of you Doms/FLR/Masters use guidelines or set specific goals your sub must hit before release is even considered? For example, do you require so many rounds of oral sex from him before he gets released? Do you make sure he’s been pegged anally by you a certain number of times first? Do you rely on physical exercise targets as a minimum requirement for release? Or do you mix and match these examples where multiple goals must be met at once? Maybe some people don’t use specific goals but stick to a set number of days. Some might play dice or cards. And how much weight do you give anal stimulation, prostate massage, or prostate ejaculation when deciding whether to release your sub? I’d love to hear your thoughts so I can bring as much knowledge into our discussions with Dom. This group has some very experienced couples, and I really want to learn from your experiences. Thanks