curious_cat_22 Newcomer Thread starter I keep seeing ruined orgasms mentioned and I do not fully get how it is different from just edging and stopping. Is it a timing thing, where you let it start and then pull back?
And what is the appeal compared to full denial or a normal finish? I am trying to understand the actual mechanics and the why before I ask my partner to try it. Feels like the kind of thing that goes wrong if you do not understand it first.
