Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Greetings everyone, For some of you who have been living this lifestyle for quite a while, my achievement might not seem like much. Tomorrow marks the conclusion of my first long-term stretch in chastity and denial, locked up by my lovely wife, who holds the key. We’ve done shorter runs of one or two weeks before. However, I was the one pushing to see how far we could go with a longer duration. I originally proposed three months, but since we were both newcomers to this world, we doubted it was possible. Yet here I stand on the brink of that final day, happier and prouder than you can imagine. Especially when thinking about my wife, who has been so encouraging and joyful throughout. Reflecting on how we reached this wonderful point in our relationship makes me wonder why we hesitated for so long. My wife’s confidence and assertiveness are shining through not just here but in her everyday life as well. I am deeply smitten with the love and affection she shows, and home feels like a happier place now. Over time, my wife has gradually taken on more of the keyholder role, relishing the attention, massages, and pleasure herself. At first, she felt guilty about enjoying orgasms while denying me, but that’s gone away; she now fully understands how much I benefit from her satisfaction too. Once tomorrow passes—and hopefully with an orgasm granted by my wife—she has mentioned there won’t be a set date for the next one. It will depend entirely on her discretion. So I’ll remain at her mercy: giving her pleasure, and perhaps earning permission to cum if she allows it (Wow, things have shifted so much for the better). Honestly, I don’t mind whether I get that release or not because I’ve enjoyed this journey far more than expected. In fact, I’m slightly nervous about how an orgasm might affect this lovely state I find myself in. This experience hasn’t changed who I am as a man—I remain confident and assertive in my daily routine—but with my partner, best friend, confidant, lover, and wife (all one person), I’ve discovered a gentler side that was always there but needed to be drawn out. It’s been an incredible journey. Those of you who have found your way here like me likely agree: it is such a beautiful place to reside. Also, after thorough discussions and research, my wife has arranged for me to get a PA piercing so I can wear a device long-term without the irritation caused by ball traps. We decided we need something comfortable enough for very long-term use (whatever that entails) and discreet too. My job is physically demanding, and wearing full belts all day isn’t practical, though I do have to wear one at night. I just wanted to share this update—it’s been truly wonderful. And now I’m excited for our next chapter beginning right away. Warm regards.