Hello everyone! My girlfriend and I have been together for around ten months. Roughly five months back, we began experimenting with bondage, gradually shifting into a Dom/sub dynamic since then. It really appeals to me when she ties me up and teases me until I’m pleading. The main issue is that we live far apart, so our physical playtime is limited. Still, we text quite often, and while locked in, gagged, and teased via messages just as if we were together. Even though we are both relatively new to this lifestyle, I can see her confidence growing (as does mine). Lately, we’ve incorporated chastity into our routine. I’m using a CB6000 which is still getting adjusted to by my body; previously, it was common for me to wake up three or four times every night. Over the past few weeks, though, I’ve worn it during daylight hours and taken it off at bedtime. This change has allowed me to sleep through the last three nights with only one awakening each time, usually about an hour before my alarm sounds—a significant improvement over waking every 60-90 minutes previously. I’ve been locked for a week and a half now, and I won’t be freed until another two days pass. Then she will take the main key (the spare is placed somewhere requiring effort to retrieve), giving her control over my sexual release.
I adore my GF/Mistress, and we are both learning how our roles work together. While she still has some hesitations about “commanding” me, I’ve made it clear that I want to serve as her sub, obey her directions, and bring satisfaction to her.