Hey there,
My wife discovered I was into chastity and orgasm denial porn about six months ago, then got me a cage. I was surprised but really excited at the idea of actually living out those fantasies.
So over the last half-year, I’ve been getting used to wearing it and playing along with the games here and there. The plan had always been for her to let me adjust until our anniversary. Now that we’re five days past that date, I’m realizing she might not have given me enough time to prepare.
I’d never been locked up longer than a week or two before, but back then there wasn’t much teasing involved. Usually, three days was my limit. But now with daily teasing, it’s driving me mad. It’s only been five days and I feel like I’m losing it. Today brought on the worst case of blue balls I’ve ever experienced; I couldn’t move without grimacing in pain for half the day at work. The agony finally started to settle into a dull ache after lunch.
Anyway, let me back up.
My wife and I agreed that she would take my key on our anniversary and start controlling when I cum. So the big day arrived, we discussed the rules, and made sure we were aligned. We negotiated all the small details along with some major ones. For instance, I hoped for a three-minute teasing blowjob every morning before her work commute, which she agreed to. That’s pretty great, though it ended up being daily as long as I satisfied her the night before. Still not bad.
I figure this means I get teased twice a day—once at night with the scent of pussy all over my face and once in the morning. So we had a solid game plan to keep things interesting and ensure we were both happy with the arrangements.
Then she mentioned expecting lots of orgasms from her since she’d be giving up sex. I was slightly confused but decided to go along, telling her I would tease and eat her out almost every day, plus whenever she wanted. She said that sounded good because she wouldn’t want to give me extra time if she wasn’t satisfied.
I got really excited by everything, which gave me a raging hard-on during our conversation. We started having sex while she kept laying it on thick about not letting me cum before locking me up. I exploded inside her; one of the best orgasms ever for me.
After catching our breath, she began putting the cage on. Before closing the lock, she looked at me seriously and asked if I was sure I wanted to go through with this. Of course, I said yes, it’s going to be great. Then I asked if she’d tell me how long or just make me wait.
The wicked woman smiled and said six months. I smiled back thinking she was joking and asked her to confirm the real duration, but she wasn’t kidding.
She explained that if I truly wanted her to dive into my chastity fantasies, I needed to prove it. So I suggested two or three weeks would be good enough for proof, maybe even a full month to drive the point home. She held firm; apparently, a few weeks isn’t worth doing in her mind.
She told me if I wouldn’t commit six months so she could see how she likes the chastity lifestyle, then she won’t do it at all.
So yes, suddenly I have to decide if I really want this lifestyle.
I don’t know much about long-term locking up and only being let out for teasing before going back in. So while she held the cage with one hand and played with the lock in the other, I thought it over. She’s so hot; I figured that if I get unlocked once a night to be teased while eating her out, plus getting a morning blowjob every day, I’ll receive way more play than before. That decided it.
I’m not sure why—maybe shock from being asked—but just thinking about all the teasing and her sexy self sitting there with the lock waiting for my answer did it. I asked if she meant six months? She nodded. I smiled and nodded back, then she closed the lock.
No orgasms at all for six months; I still can’t believe I agreed to that. If you haven’t noticed, this is like a fantasy coming true for me. That night before bed, she unlocked me briefly while we teased each other for about an hour and edged me several times as I helped her cum, then locked me up again.
The next morning at 6 AM, since she wakes up early, she sucked on me like she was trying to pull every drop of cum out. At least that’s how it felt for three minutes before back into the cage I went.
Here I am five days later and struggling. I love the teasing more than anything—it’s the best part—but the frustration and blue balls are tough. Who knew they could be so painful?
I didn’t get them until last night, which wasn’t too bad then, but after her morning teasing blowjob today… it was all I could do not to beg for release (okay, I lied—I did beg; she just didn’t expect me to).
At work, the feeling keeps worsening. Finally, around 1 PM after lunch, the pain started dropping off until about 2 PM when it settled into a dull ache. It may sound silly, but I swear they hurt less each time I urinate.
Anyway, how do you deal with blue balls when you can’t just cum to fix them? Will this get much worse or last longer over time? Do your balls eventually reach a point where they have a constant dull ache? I’m not sure I can handle the blue balls. Will I be suffering from them 24/7 after a while, or only every day right after being teased?
I need to mentally prepare myself because I realize now how little I know about this. The next question is: Can I realistically expect to make six months when I’m already freaking out so hard after just five days?
I’m in way over my head. Wanting sex with everything. Not sure what to do.