I wanted to drop in and say hi, plus share a bit about me and my Mistress. We’ve been together for nearly 29 years, married just over 21 of them. She was 16 when we first met, so do the math if you like our ages. Even though she isn’t exactly my wife anymore, she’ll always be my best friend. Our FLR journey began about three years ago, largely by chance. I won’t bore you with the mundane details, but both of us sensed something stirring inside that we really liked and decided to go for it.
As anyone in an FLR knows well, it demands a ton of hard work, love, and patience. You have to break free from deep-rooted social conditioning, requiring a level of trust that most folks just can’t grasp. My Mistress struggled with this more than I did; the key hurdle was finding a way for her to assert her authority without falling back on corporal punishment—something she detests almost as much as I enjoy it.
We’ve practiced orgasm denial for over a year, but we needed something else: something passive that she could enforce and which made me feel truly “owned.” A month ago, my Mistress gave me the Jailbird from Mature Metal, and her transformation has been remarkable. She was amazed at how decisively forceful she became. I pointed out to her that she basically has a built-in safety net. If I misbehave, she doesn’t have to do much to punish me; instead, I can only hope for release by obeying every wish until not just my infractions are made up but also enough goodwill is earned so that she genuinely wants to offer temporary relief.
We’re currently aiming for two continuous months of locking with no sexual attention for me while she keeps her usual three days a week pleasure. So far, it’s reduced my will as intended; I’m obedient, though still possessing some stubbornness. With six weeks left, I already find myself unable to imagine doing or saying anything that might annoy my Mistress in any way. This feels like the magic formula she has been seeking for these three years.
Things are looking up so far. I hope I can be as helpful to you all here as I’m sure you will be to me. Thanks for taking the time to learn a bit about me. Willing Slave.