.Well. This is my very first post ever. Just to give a quick background. I have had a fascination with this subject for quite some time. Read thousands of threads and topics. Purchased the CB2000/3000, introduced them into my relationship but they never lasted or worked out more than a day here or there. Even got a full belt from Neosteel; it was completely adjusted and everything, but again didn’t work out for much more than an evening before ending up in the closet for years. This was a dead end deal in my current situation. Went through a divorce. Time went by. Got remarried and time continued.
Now I am married to the love of my life. Having a sex life like I’m a teenager again. We are so connected, best friends with very traditional family values. With such a close relationship and being so secure in it, bringing up the interest was easy; I explained what the idea means to me. To me, handing over the keys is a gift to my wife—handing over all our intimate control to her. I didn’t make too big of a deal out of it, just explained the interest to her and let it sit there. A few weeks passed and she brought it up again; she agreed to give it a try. So off went the Neosteel, keys were handed over (thrown in her purse), she drove to work, I went to mine too. Anxiety set in right away and drove me crazy all day until I got home—nothing happened. Rough night’s sleep. Woke up, showered, headed back to work; same thing that day too.
Got home that evening: wife teased me—I satisfied her, she denied me. Third day was the same, but then she released me for a ruined orgasm and put me back in until morning, releasing me when we woke so I could have mine again. Spent one day out, back in the next morning, and have spent 5 straight days locked with no romantic action at all—just having fun. Last night we went to bed early; I thought for sure she would let me out to make love to her. What happened next was blissful. I spend so much time making love to my beautiful wife for hours, and as she came, I was in tune with her perfectly. As she lay there satisfied (and I was too), it wasn’t until an hour later that I realized I had never been unlocked; I remained exactly as I was. Now on day 7, feeling completely satisfied and anxiety-free.
This is only our second week.