After two decades with my wife (now officially titled Dream Girl in our dynamic), we chose to re-engage with a D/s lifestyle featuring 24/7 chastity for me, and I was resolved to succeed. She initially planned a two-week denial, but things were progressing so smoothly that we bypassed the first release window, extending it to four weeks, then five, and eventually six. However, after hitting the five-week mark, I started suffering from uncontrollable mood swings and emotional distress. We are dealing with significant stress regarding one of our kids, and yesterday I was on the verge of tears—an unusual occurrence for me.
My wife, a naturally dominant partner with sharp intuition, called for a “reflection” session where she gave me a severe whipping, arguably her hardest yet. Following that, I knelt to kiss and massage her feet. The impact on my mood was profound; things felt much better afterward. Later that night, permission was granted for penetration, accompanied by the command to reach orgasm. There has been no letdown since then. I feel refreshed and eager to keep going with my training in obedience and chastity, feeling more convinced than ever that I want to be an exemplary slave husband.
So I made it to 5 weeks and 5 days total. Has anyone else dealt with this kind of reaction during longer denial periods? I’ve read accounts from others who managed much longer durations, so I wonder: does it get easier or better over time? Do some people hit a hard limit where they edge toward semi-madness as nature takes its course?