I’ve had my birdlocked on for roughly a month, eagerly waiting for my jailbird to arrive. My wife and I are really enjoying this lifestyle, though we lean more toward an orgasm control dynamic than strict chastity. She allows me release every two or three days.
Previously, she would let me sleep without it after sex, but lately, she insists that I clean myself and the device right away before putting it back on.
I must admit, my discomfort from nocturnal erections has dropped significantly, and I’m curious about why. Is my body simply acclimating to the sensation of my cock pulling against the cage? Or have those nighttime erections actually diminished? Any insights would be welcome.