I’ve been following this place for a while and have gradually woven aspects of female domination and chastity into my life with her. Thought I’d share the updates in case they help others.
To start, she’s bossy and dominant outside the bedroom but surprisingly shy when we’re intimate. It took considerable time to build an open dialogue about our fantasies and desires. Interestingly, aside from a vibrator, the first sex toy we bought was a CB6k. We tried it for a few hours during some intense intercourse, but she didn’t really get into it initially. I asked her why, and discovered that when I’m locked up in it, she feels pressured to have sex within just a couple of hours. So I explained that the appeal lies in my remaining locked until SHE decides I can be released. I also highlighted how this works for both of us: sexually (she gets complete satisfaction without needing to reciprocate) and as a lifestyle choice (if I don’t act like she wants, the chastity stays on until I improve). We liked that dynamic, so we agreed.
I used this chance to really push toward female domination. She wasn’t against it at all, and we discussed some shared fantasies regarding her role.
To make sure everything stuck, I suggested a trip to the sex shop where she could buy whatever caught her eye. To add to the fun, I stayed locked up during the whole outing! We came home with a lovely corset, leather stiletto boots, a cockring vibrator, massage oils, and some basic bondage restraints for our bedroom.
The rest of that day (from about 4 pm until 10 pm) was all about worshipping her: massaging, giving oral and vibrator orgasms, cooking dinner, making drinks—all while I remained naked and locked. Finally, she released me, allowing an intense orgasm inside her.
By the end, we were both relaxed and extremely happy. She felt confident and sexy in her corset, while I felt deeply connected and subservient to her.
The next day was normal business as usual. We haven’t discussed it much since then, but I’m looking forward to when things slow down so we can slip back into that wonderful space.