Greetings everyone. Here is some context: my wife and I have spent the last six months experimenting with male chastity, using a CB6000S. It’s been quite enjoyable for the most part (though life occasionally throws us curveballs that disrupt our well-laid plans). Recently things got more serious when she bought me a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress as a Christmas gift. This came with the condition that I ‘take it seriously,’ which referred to both of us being a bit lax during the holidays (I wasn’t wearing the CB6000S consistently, and she wasn’t enforcing its use). For the past two weeks, things have definitely stepped up! Tease and Denial are now regular parts of our morning routines, and I keep the CB6000S on. There’s also been a noticeable FemDom vibe in our dynamic, which a) arouses me and B) is something I want to foster. Given all this, I thought it would be useful to draft a behavior contract for us. It goes beyond a standard chastity agreement by incorporating those FemDom elements. I’d love your thoughts. By the way, I’ll need to post in sections because there’s a character limit per post. Cheers, b2ounce. Contract **1. **This contract establishes the guidelines and structure for Male Chastity between Wife and Husband. It isn’t exhaustive but is meant to be a living document that both can contribute to at any time. It outlines behavioral expectations, current roles, and how we will discuss matters. **2. **Background a. The Husband drafted this contract as an expression of love and trust. He grants the Wife full control over his orgasms, offering them freely with confidence in her ability to manage his sexual needs. She is expected to enjoy this arrangement and clearly delight that her sexual requirements are the Husband’s top priority. Simply put, the Husband willingly surrenders sexually. b. The authority position given to the Wife should be seen as a loving gift from Husband to Wife. c. This gift is highly valued by the Husband and must be demonstrated as such. **3. **Persons, roles & items a. The Wife (hereafter called the Mistress) who holds sole Keyholder status for the Chastity Device; b. The Husband, spouse of the Mistress; c. The Chastity Device worn to encase the husband’s genitalia and prevent self-stimulation. This may be a CB-6000S, Watchful Mistress, or any other device acquired later by either party. Choice of device rests at the sole discretion of the Mistress, which the Husband cannot dispute. The device is locked when worn; locking methods are chosen at the Mistresses’ discretion. d. The Mistress’ Property (the Property); i.e., the Husband’s genitalia. Signing this contract transfers ownership to the Mistress. **4. **Definitions a. Male Chastity: Abstinence from male sexual climax, usually enforced by wearing the device. b. Keyholder: Person holding the key to the lock on the device; typically the Mistress. c. Denial: Withholding Sexual Release from the Husband. The Mistress cannot be denied release for any reason. d. Denial Period: Duration between potential releases, set by the Mistress. Determination can use chance or other methods chosen by her. Her decision is final and accepted by the husband; she may extend it as needed. e. Release: Removal of the Chastity Device. f. Sexual Release: Orgasm for Husband (ruined or not per Mistress’s wish) or orgasm for the Mistress; g. Milking: Emission of semen via prostate manipulation, manually or with tools/toys chosen by the Mistress. h. Tease and Denial: Sexual teasing/arousal without resulting in husband’s release. i. Punishments: Penalties enforced if Husband breaks a term. **5. **Duration & revisions a. The contract lasts indefinitely until either party decides to break it, usually with explanation of reasons. b. Revisions can occur anytime after discussion; either party may initiate this. **6. **Denial Period a. Set by the Mistress at her discretion regarding methodology. b. Husband may request shorter or longer periods; acceptance is up to the Mistress. c. Once finalized, the husband must be informed. d. No period should be under 10 days except in special cases. e. The Mistress may grant extended Release time where the husband does not wear a device for a couple of days. He enjoys multiple releases as desired (with or without her involvement). At the end, he returns to chastity; his Property is placed back into a Male Chastity Device. f. Normally she informs him of the duration but reserves the right to end it early if needed. **7. **Behaviors a. Hygiene i. Husband handles daily cleaning of the device and property, even without release from the device. ii. He notifies her immediately about cleanliness or effectiveness issues. iii. She allows at least weekly removal for inspection/cleaning. During this, she may ask him to shave his Property (supervised by her or done by her). She may restrain him during cleaning/inspection. iv. Husband agrees to replace the device promptly after removal and assists as needed. If arousal causes tumescence preventing enclosure, Mistress may use methods to reduce it. b. Keys i. Physical key, code, or breakable tag permission all allow release. ii. Mistress holds keys at all times. iii. A physical key is worn/kept on a chain about her person (usually around the neck indoors). iv. Emergency access is at her discretion.
stimulating the Mistress’s Property without Her permission. ii. The Husband may remove the Chastity Device, with the permission of the Mistress when;
- Going to the gym, rugby training or playing rugby.
- Visiting a medical practitioner or similar. In these circumstances, permission from the Mistress would not necessarily be needed by the Husband, but should be sought as an indication of the high esteem in which She should be held. d. Sexual release for the Husband i. This will be at the sole discretion of the Mistress. Any sexual Release for the Husband that is not expressly authorised by the Mistress will result in punishment of the Husband by the Mistress. ii. The Mistress shall determine the time and manner of the Husband’s sexual Release and may choose to abandon an attempt at any time up to the point of the Sexual Release being sought. iii. The Husband should warn the Mistress if Sexual Release is imminent during a Tease and Denial session especially if permission for Sexual Release has not been given by the Mistress. e. Sexual release for the Mistress i. This will be at a time and place chosen at the sole discretion of the Mistress. ii. There is a duty on the Husband to ensure that Mistress achieves sexual Release at least daily, if she so wishes. If he is unable to do this then he should make arrangements for it to happen. iii. The Mistress may choose the Husband to assist Her in Sexual Release, but is free to use other methods. Typically, if the husband is present he will be expected to assist the Mistress in achieving sexual Release with enthusiasm. f. Reinforcing i. The Husband will thank the Mistress on a daily basis for being his Mistress and Keyholder. The Mistress may ritualise this process e.g. insisting that the Husband does this on his knees etc. ii. The Husband will refer to the Mistress as ‘Mistress’ or any other term that the Mistress should desire. iii. The Mistress may refer to the Husband as She chooses. iv. The Mistress may choose to subject the Husband to as much teasing as possible in order to reinforce his dependence on her for Sexual Release. This may include using such methods as:
- Tease and Denial sessions.
- Dressing provocatively, whether in private or public.
- Verbal teasing and stimulation.
- Viewing of pornography, whether together of when the Husband is separated from the Mistress. The Mistress may choose the pornography to be viewed. iii. Both parties are expected to maintain their own health. h. Appearance i. It is the duty of the Husband to look good for his Mistress’ aesthetic pleasure. To this end he will maintain an appearance that is pleasing to his Mistress. To this end, his duties will be to:
- Be pleasant smelling and have minty, fresh breath.
- Maintain trimmed pubic hair around Mistress’ Property, specifically the scrotum and penis.
- Wear smart clothing in public when accompanying Mistress.
- Maintain a clean shaven face when in situations where intimacy between the Mistress and Husband may occur. The Mistress may request that the Husband shaves at any time. ii. The Mistress should understand the need to maintain appearances;
- Visual stimulation is very important in reinforcing the benefits of this contract to the Husband. To this end the Mistress should consider wearing sexually provocative clothing around the Husband but not to the detriment of her standing at her place of work or in the community. **8. **Sex a. There is no obligation on the Mistress to grant sexual Release even if She has said that She will. A decision to grant Sexual Release for the Husband may be revoked at any time by the Mistress up to the point of Sexual Release. b. The Husband may not ask for Sexual Release, unless told to do so; it may please the Mistress for the Husband to beg. c. The Mistress is the sole owner of Her Property and may treat it in any manner She sees fit during Tease and Denial or sexual Release. d. The Mistress may perform any sexual act, be it on the Husband or on herself, by any method She sees fit. e. The Mistress may order the Husband to perform any sexual act, be it on the Mistress or on himself, by any method She sees fit. f. The Husband acknowledges and agrees that the Mistress has certain sexual needs that may need to be fulfilled and such releases for the Mistress do not constitute a release for Husband. g. The Husband agrees to satisfy the Mistress by whatever means She deems necessary for Her own sexual gratification. h. Husband agrees that Sexual Releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by the Mistress. Husband agrees that the Mistress may release the Husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Mistress permits one. i. The Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) vibrators, strap-ons, dildo, and other aids to satisfy Mistress. j. Husband agrees that Mistress may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband is told by Mistress to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.) **9. **Rights, Privileges and Understandings a. All lingerie for the Mistress will be bought by the Husband upon Her request, which will be met with cheerful acceptance by the Husband. The request can be as specific as the Mistress decides. The Husband may purchase lingerie for the Mistress as a gift at any time. b. All sexual toys and equipment for the Mistress or Husband will be bought by the Husband upon Her request, which will be met with cheerful acceptance by the Husband. The Husband may purchase toys and equipment for the Mistress as a gift at any time. c. Any purchase of sexual toys or equipment by the Husband for his own use, if not requested by the Mistress, should be authorised by the Mistress. This authorisation should be preceded by the Husband offering a full justification and explanation of his need for the toy. Permission will be granted by the Mistress solely at Her discretion. d. Husband agrees and understands that Mistress may use various methods to tease and torment Husband at any time. Further more, Husband understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Mistress may continue or stop at will. e. Mistress understands that She is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from the Husband or other sources during Denial Periods. f. Husband is aware that rewards up to and including Sexual Release are given for good behavior including but not limited to pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other ideas Husband comes up with. g. Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made as long as both parties are in agreement. **10. **Privacy a. Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as household finances and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement. b. This contract is between the Mistress and Husband. Release of knowledge of the existence of the contract, whole or in part, is wholly forbidden. c. The behaviours dictated by this contract are to be the standard when the Mistress and Husband are in a private area e.g. at home. There will need to be a degree of judgement as to what is acceptable outside of this area. **11. **Typical Punishments a. Withholding of Sexual Release, period to be determined by the Mistress b. Corporal punishments e.g. whipping, flogging, nipple twisting etc c. Withholding of Tease and Denial. d. sexual punishment e.g. wearing CBT items e.g. Humbler, ball stretcher, Kali’s Teeth, Points of Intrigue, Watchful Mistress spike (Note: These are also sexual acts and, as such, the Mistress may instigate these at any time f
or her own pleasure). e. Humiliation e.g. sitting on the floor, not the sofa, when watching TV with Mistress, verbal humiliation. f. Any other punishment Mistress may feel is appropriate. **12. **Specific Punishments a. Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior. b. Breach of contract by Mistress will constitute a cancellation of contract. c. Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from device. d. Breach of contract by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the Mistress as outlined below. e. Unauthorized removal of device will result in a ten-day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Absolutely no Sexual Releases or Tease and Denial sessions will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period. f. Unauthorized removal of device that includes a Sexual Release will result in a fifteen day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Again, absolutely no Sexual Releases or Tease and Denial sessions will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Mistress. g. Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Mistress to correct or punish infractions from contract. h. Husband agrees that failure to accept terms of punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behaviour on part of Mistress. **13. **Safe words a. Yellow means stop. b. On cessation with reason for stopping may be discussed. The Mistress is the sole arbiter as to whether or not the decision to stop is justified and may mete out any punishment She sees fit if the cessation was not justified. 14. ****Signatures