Introductions discussion

OK… I’m a Canadian guy in my fifties. I’ve been into chastity on and off since the early 2000s. My wife is very understanding and somewhat kinky, plus I have plenty of friends from the kink community who understand and encourage me. More recently we got serious about long-term denial with chastity. Keyholding is shared between my wife and one of our best close friends; she’s kinky and enjoys having a good friend become her chaste man-servant/handy-man/minion/kink partner, acting as a bit of a Good cop/Bad cop dynamic. I work from home and am always locked up there. Everything intimate or kinky is done while locked with no release allowed. I only unlock for cleaning and when being in chastity outside the house becomes impractical… Sports, family stuff, motorcycle riding, wearing tight jeans…etc. That pretty much covers me/us. Chastity here is more about behaviour modification than strict rules and punishment. We are semi-poly, kinky, chaste, denied, but usually just normal. We do ordinary things and hang out together. Chastity is simply part of daily life at this point. There aren’t big scenes or threesomes or that sort of thing. Pretty boring most of the time!