Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Solid concept; let’s just verify a few small points before you step out into the broader realm of Keyholders. Do you currently own a device? If not, your search should lean toward a Mistress instead of a standard Keyholder—they aren’t quite the same type of person. How long have you managed to keep your device on without removing it for the longest stretch? If you’re asking someone else to hold your keys, they need at least be capable of wearing their own restraint for several days. We simply don’t have time for that endless complaining about needing release. Are there other things you’ll expect while locked up? Don’t anticipate that whoever holds your keys will spend all day teasing you every few minutes just because the cage keeps you feeling amorous. Whether it’s a spouse, friend, romantic partner, or pro, they didn’t sign up to tease you relentlessly throughout the entire period. We don’t have time for endless teasing either. Have you checked that daily life won’t create issues with being locked? Are there small kids who might climb onto your lap and ask what the hard lump is? Do you go up and down ladders often or host guests at home? How do you plan to thank your Keyholder for this privilege? If it’s a professional, rules are usually already established. But if it’s your partner, I’m confident they’d appreciate some acknowledgment that they aren’t going mad while you’re acting like a dog in heat nearby. By that, I mean non-sexual gestures—flowers, chocolates, maybe gin or other drinks. You’ve likely already provided plenty of sexual relief during the lock-up period, so this should be something personal for her. Once you’ve reviewed these points and grasped what is most likely to occur, then you’re ready. I wouldn’t want you venturing out thinking Keyholders do nothing but tease locked men while expecting endless appreciation. We don’t have time for that.