Novices and newbies discussion

My wife and I have always had a Femdom relationship, that’s how we started. We’ve been together for 13 years and she has always had an interest in chastity, while I had always had it as a hard limit. Over the last few years, we had discussed it, and through growing trust and knowledge, my fears decreased to the point where in May, I put on a CB6000 we had had for a while. Our issue is that we both have full-time jobs. Now, everyone has one, but hers is unique in that she’s a consultant with clients all over the world, so often, her client calls and meetings occur at very odd hours. This has left very little time to do anything, so chastity has settled into a boring routine. Teasing rarely happens, and sexual play is maybe once a week. I do all the cooking and cleaning, the various chores around the house, and try my best to make her life easier. I make every attempt to connect with her and talk about how I’m feeling. My thoughts are that it may have been such a powerful fantasy for so long, that when the reality finally hit, she seems disinterested. Like, “it was really hot when you didn’t want to do it, now you do, and…meh.” We’ve discussed this, and her response is that it’s a bit of disconnect, it being a hard limit for 12 years, then, one night, of my own accord, just “click” and it was on. We’ve talked about chastity schedules and setting up a point system for earning release, but it’s been talk and no further movement. Right now, she’s limited chastity periods to about 7 days, because she really enjoys sex, and cuckolding holds no appeal for either of us, and as she’s said “I don’t want a dildo.” So, I wondering if anyone has suggestions on what I can do here to kind of jump start this? Festen