I had an odd experience yesterday that made me reconsider my cage dimensions. Previously, I wore a much smaller base ring. My current cage is too wide and tends to slip down, so I adjusted for this by using it in a specific way. One time, my KH let me out but we couldn’t remove the base ring. We continued with sex anyway. When I reached orgasm, it felt somewhat inhibited, and I didn’t ejaculate at all. Afterwards, removing the base ring was hard because my erection persisted. Once I finally got it off, a good amount of semen came out. It seems the base ring was likely too tight, which stopped ejaculation from occurring. Now, I am wearing the same cage but with modifications: it has been shortened and paired with a larger base ring. I have found that this combination—a shorter cage with a bigger base ring—has been much more comfortable for me. As an aside, I plan to buy a narrower cage soon because I know this one is definitely too wide; currently, I am sort of “packing” into the shortened space to compensate. It isn’t perfect but it works in the short term. Last night my KH held a Hitachi against my cage until I reached orgasm. Again, however, there was no ejaculation during that moment, even with my larger base ring. As I softened up afterward, though, the semen came out then. So I have two working theories on why this happens:
- The base ring is still too small and constricting my urethra from the inside, thus preventing ejaculation until pressure builds enough to release it.
- Because my cage is too wide, I might get overly erect, creating excessive internal pressure within the cage. This creates a point of restriction. Either theory would also explain why I never leak while being teased but produce precum after a session once I calm down a bit. I think with permission from my KH, I may try an experiment: having orgasm with just the base ring and also having orgasm with just the cage (holding it in place with one hand while using the wand with the other). This should likely solve the mystery, but I am curious to see what the community thinks.