Introductions discussion

I’ve been checking out the forum for advice and inspiration over the years, but I only recently signed up. Living in Scotland, I’m part of a 16-year relationship with my girlfriend, who also acts as my Mistress. My primary kink is a strong fetish for silk scarves and bandanas—she loves using them to tease me—but I’m equally keen on bondage, submission, teasing & denial, humiliation, and naturally, chastity. We’ve experimented with chastity devices for about ten years now. We own several ball-trap models in both steel and plastic, most recently picking up a HolyTrainer V3 a few months back. Because of my job, I’m not locked 24/7, but she keeps me chaste for several days at a time, often longer during holidays. When I am unlocked, we operate on the “honour system”… she controls when and if I have an orgasm.