It’s hard to believe that over three months have passed since we committed me to 24/7 chastity. During this time, a routine has developed that works well for us. I’m allowed out each day for a supervised shower cleaning; once done, I must be locked back up and hand her the key before she leaves the bathroom. If I’ve behaved, my wife lets me cum about every six weeks using her hands. We previously tried two-week and four-week intervals, but shifts in my mood and behavior meant that longer periods of being locked became necessary.
We always felt we had a strong marriage, but adding chastity has elevated our happiness to new heights. My wife’s growing confidence in herself and her authority over me and the family has made such a difference. We make time every day to show appreciation for one another, checking in to ensure both of us are having good days and offering help when we can.
For several years prior, my wife hadn’t shown much desire for sexual intimacy with me, but since I entered chastity, she seems more interested in receiving pleasure from my fingers or tongue on her terms. This has become a frequent nightly occurrence. It feels wonderful to see my beautiful wife enjoying an orgasm and seeking the sexual release that I provide, even though we aren’t having intercourse (which is still somewhat unbelievable given how I feel).
To celebrate three months of my chastity journey, my wife invited one of her former lovers over while I was at work. They ended up sharing sex in our guest room. It’s difficult to describe the pain I felt as she recounted her afternoon and mentioned it being “the best orgasm she ever had.” Yet, there is a certain pride in knowing that this lifestyle made such an event possible. Seeing how high she was when I returned home reassured me; I still love and respect my wife deeply, and her affection for me shines through every day.
Overall, after three months, I truly cherish chastity and the positive impact it has brought to our relationship. I hope the next quarter is just as rewarding. From the outside, we appear to be a very normal (vanilla) couple with a lovely family life. Often, I wonder what friends and relatives would say if they knew exactly why we are so content right now.