Several months back, my wife and I began exploring chastity together with TD. We had a great time, yet felt that something was lacking all along. Now I realize I’d been steering the ship whether on purpose or not. We’ve since flipped our dynamic completely; she is now the one being denied. Honestly, I love playing as her dominant partner, and it has certainly boosted our intimacy. The only catch is she refuses to wear any kind of belt, though that doesn’t bother me much because she never really masturbated anyway. What I miss sometimes is feeling like the submissive one myself. She tried hard to take charge and lead us but just couldn’t quite pull it off. Today I put on my cage again just for that locked-in sensation after nearly a month without it. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated since we’re unsure of our next steps. She’s clearly a full submission who won’t try leading anymore. So how can I satisfy my own submissive needs while keeping this arrangement?
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