Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

It’s been a few days since I was intimate with my wife, and she self-locked during several of those. Yesterday while she was showering naked, we chatted, and later on we exchanged emails… me: “I’m feeling really horny for you. You looked super sexy in the shower, and lately you seem confidently to be presenting your feet for me to rub—very attractive.” hers: “maybe tonight?” mine: “whenever you’re ready; no pressure at all. Just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you.” hers: “you are picturing my glistening naked body again, aren’t you?” We flirted quite a bit but kept the kids in mind for most of the evening. After going to bed and watching Game of Thrones, she made her move… giving me really nice, full-on sexy kisses and petting… then suddenly said awkwardly, “Okay, night sweetie.” I asked, “What was all that???” She replied, “Just giving you a little thrill.” So… I decided to test her. I kept kissing harder, and she responded well. I got her panties off and removed my boxers. Just as I was about to go for it, she said, “I really don’t want to have sex tonight.” Wow! At first, I thought she did, but this time she stayed true to her intention to tease me. Either way, clearly intended to tease me with the confidence to reject me nicely at that stage of the game. When I got up this morning, the kids were already sneaking around, and I sent her an email… Hun… Thank you for the “thrill” last night. You are extremely sexy, and I found it super hot. This morning I woke at 6 throbbing as much as ever. I lay beside you for a long time before trying to cuddle so as not to wake you. Your legs were apart initially so that I could put my left leg over your right one and position my cock next to your slightly spread legs and naked hiney. It was a unique form of suffering being so close to where it needed to be, crying out to get inside you, yet simply enjoying listening to you snore while knowing you are comfortable. My thoughts were mixed—romantic and animalistic—as I looked at your naked butt right there. I did want to kiss it some more, leading to all kinds of thoughts… but mostly it was just a nice mix of wanting you and loving you. Since you were sleeping and we didn’t quite get our time together as hoped, hopefully you won’t mind this note about it. Love… (You: “I love you too”, Me: “I know”;) ) She read that and already ran up to me for a deep kiss. She apparently slept horribly, hence didn’t wake at the normal time, and I’m sure appreciated that I let her be despite my desire… Anyway…it was a good last 12 hours…:rolleyes: