Greetings everyone. Lady J and I (D.) have been quietly observing the site for a bit now, getting a feel for it. The other evening, following a particularly grueling teasing session, she suggested that perhaps we ought to become members, so here we are. We’re a couple from the Midwest in our early forties who look quite standard on the surface.
We’ve been together nearly four years and have attempted male chastity several times during our relationship, mostly at my suggestion. Each time it faded after just a few days because Lady J didn’t seem to care enough to put much energy into it—until this last attempt.
Last September, I made another proposal, and she agreed once more. Perhaps on this try she could better see the advantages for her (greater attentiveness, deeper intimacy, helpfulness, etc.) in withholding my pleasure, or perhaps not; whatever the reason, she has embraced it completely, and honestly, she is excellent at it!
Our sex life was great before Lady J became more involved, but now it’s exceptional. Her confidence and assertiveness have grown significantly. Previously, she would rarely even ask for oral (though she never had to)…now, however, she doesn’t hesitate to push my head down and command me to do it, or loop one of her beautiful ankles behind my neck and press my face in closer.
I couldn’t be more satisfied with our intimacy and the privilege I have of serving my stunning Goddess. She is very happy with how my behavior has changed as well. It turns out she gets quite aroused hearing me beg for release (which happens often, given that we just finished week three of a planned month-long span without an orgasm).
Apologies for such a lengthy introduction; those are our core details regarding chastity. I look forward to picking up new ideas on how to demonstrate my devotion and gratitude to Lady J. She will hopefully discover fresh, torturous ways to tease me and utilize my orgasms according to her own wants.
She spent the night away from home, and I intend to get some chores around the house finished before she comes back. D.