Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello everyone, First off, forgive my English; please be patient as it is not my native tongue. I want to highlight the issue of the very high rate of fake female profiles and how severely this affects our collective understanding of the chastity lifestyle. A long time ago (I can’t recall the source!) I read an article stating that in online BDSM communities, around 50% of female profiles could be fraudulent! Over the years, I’ve done my own investigation and must admit that figure might even be higher, particularly regarding male chastity. Haven’t you ever wondered if some posts on CM are actually written by real women? Often, it’s obvious because these individuals forget they are “female” and suddenly slip into writing from a male perspective… Many times I’ve tracked profiles online only to realize with horror that I was following a deluded bloke! It is also unfortunate that most profiles here belong to men. We can blame ourselves for this. Hordes of clueless guys attack every woman who shows up, sending her sleazy advances regardless of whether she is single or partnered. After receiving several dick pics daily, it’s no wonder many women consider fleeing…;-( Ultimately we face the sad reality that we cannot be certain which female perspective on male chastity is genuine and which is fantasy penned by (fe)males but read by men who don’t realize it won’t work in a real relationship. Some might say, “Good enough for me.” For me, it isn’t. I have no interest in the male viewpoint masquerading as female; I dislike being misled! I do not want some deluded guy to get inside my head! I am interested in the REAL female perspective: what intrigues them and what annoys them! This allows us to understand each other better and build a genuine chastity lifestyle with a real partner. I truly admire all the authentic women who remain despite everything, doing their best to teach us how chastity looks from their angle. Yet their efforts are undermined by those deceiving cheaters. Perhaps the solution is uploading photos as proof of identity, much like L-u-c-y (Partner) has done? More and more BDSM groups are tackling fake profiles this way? What do you all think? the referenced community page