Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I have been practicing orgasm denial—or what you might call tease and denial—for about a year now. I’ve worn my cage intermittently over the last three years, but recently I started regularly teasing her to deny her release. Since my birthday in early October, neither of us has had one. Later that night while she was being teased, she remarked that edging feels better than the actual climax and didn’t mind whether I let her off or not. After chatting it over, we agreed that neither of us would get a real orgasm again—for good! Forever for both of us. The plan is to have my cage riveted shut and her labia pierced in six spots this Friday at noon. Are we insane?? Do other couples follow this same path? It’s been quite the emotional rollercoaster since then, but I’m finally getting used to the idea of a marriage without orgasms!