Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I have been living the chastity lifestyle since early this year. Our practice has evolved as we’ve progressed, adjusting to what suits us best. Recently, after considering enough aspects of our routine, we decided to let go of lingering rules and hand full control over to my wife—even regarding when we have intercourse. Previously, sex was often more about teasing me than helping her reach an orgasm. She mentioned it felt like a chore for her now, so we’ll time things around her desire to climax instead. When I asked if the frequent teasing would be missed, she explained that only genuine arousal makes it enjoyable; otherwise, there’s no need to tease just for the sake of it. How do you all manage the balance between sex and teasing? I’m unsure how I’ll adjust without constant stimulation, but my priority is ensuring being a key holder doesn’t become burdensome for her.