Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi just wondering how long your key holders took to get serious about holding the key? I think my partner is starting to turn a corner, it’s only been just over a month I guess maybe a little longer. She’s not overly strict or dominating yet, hopefully this will come with time. Tbh I’m pretty happy with what we’ve got now. But I would love her to get strict one day, maybe even angry if did something I was not ment to eg cum without permission or forget to put my device back on after a shower. Do any of you have a key holder who has got pretty possessive over what’s now hers. If so how long did it take? I’m guessing most chaste men get more into there role over time, and eventually really get into it. My partner has said our relationship seems perfect Atm, she said it was great before chastity but somehow it’s better now. I’d guess women are better off with a chaste partner and once they get used to it wouldn’t want to live without it. Sorry for rambling on