Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife has taken control of my orgasms and instead of denying them, she is giving me more than I used to get. It went from chastity to orgasmity. It seems that she really likes teasing me. She does not act like a Mistress when doing it. She laughs every time she brings me to the edge and then stops. She says she really loves teasing me. The problem is that she likes to tease me often and then makes me cum when I do not want to. Follow her logic. If she does not let me cum, she is doing what I want. By making me cum, she is doing what she wants. She says that I am topping from the bottom again when I tell her not to let me cum. I can see that. Since we have been in a wife led marriage for some time, there is no issue of chastity making me more attentive or giving me a burst of energy. I do anything she tells me to do now anyway and I always make her feel sexy and desirable, because she is. She just does not see any benefit to chastity other than preventing me from masturbating between teasing sessions so that I am more responsive to her teasing. I do not know if that is really chastity play or just masturbation prevention. Maybe they are one in the same. All I know is that a little while ago she said that I made her into a sex addict because she really loves teasing me and then watching my reaction when I have my orgasm after teasing me all day and then edging me for an hour at night. She keeps telling me that she is not going to let me cum but then she does. She likes it and since she has control of my orgasms, she can give them to me as often as she likes. Oh, well.