Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I have been trying to find out what is the average time guys go without an orgasm? We are currently at a once a week schedule. As described below, that will change. We are shooting for at least a month of chastity for me and I am the type that can do anything if I know if others have done it. It is hard to get a handle on an average chastity period. I have read some websites say one week. others say twice a month while some say once a month. Some websites advise letting the guy earn his orgasm so that can be any length of time. My wife and I have been doing trial and error chastity. We tried chastity from 3 to 15 days. My wife thinks that I get less obedient and not enthusiastic about what I do for her especially massaging with an oral happy ending without her having to come down from her orgasm high to take care of my orgasm. The funny thing is that she is the one that absolutely controls my orgasms. I always tell her it is up to her and that when aroused I will always want to cum so disregard what I say in the heat of passion and do what she wants to do. The problem is that when she is highly aroused and ready to orgasm, she gets carried away in the heat of passion and wants us to cum together. I cannot complain because it is her choice to make. The problem is what follows next. I am not so submissive afterwards and that bothers her and says that she is not going to let me cum for a long time, but then she gets carried away and we are off to the races again, over and over. To break this cycle we are trying something that worked for us before. We are playing a game that has a penalty if she makes me cum before at least a month and a reward if she refrains. It is sufficient for her to really want to deny me for a month. She says that she wants me to wear my CB6000 24/7 except when we leave the house because it just does not work with my existing wardrobe and sitting in the car. I tried and no go. Also, during sex she wants me to wear it so that she cannot accidently make me cum. Instead of her edging me for an hour two or three nights a week, I am to give her full body massages with a happy ending, when she is in the mood to have an orgasm which is about twice a week these days. She says that it is difficult to concentrate on her own pleasure when she has to focus on not bringing me over the edge. I can understand that. So time will tell. I have only gone two weeks without an orgasm and was ready to go longer so I think I can make it at least 3 weeks before I get desperate. After a week I tend to lose interest in sex and if it were not for my wife teasing me, I would not be horny at all. I peak at the end of 7 days and after that, my libido starts to drop. Since I only have an orgasm on a weekend, it does not feel like I have to fight my cravings every day. Just every weekend which makes it much easier for me mentally. Time will tell.