I should start by saying that my wife and I have been having a very active, kinky sex life for about a year now. What this means is she ties me up while reading books she likes (which are not usually on my radar) to me. It’s been really fun and has boosted her confidence in tying me… which was something she wanted but hadn’t quite achieved.
About 3 weeks ago, we started talking about male chastity, and I gave her the e-book “Be Careful What You Wish For” to read. It took nearly a week for her to actually start it. Instead of pushing the topic on her, I let her go at her own pace… which has really worked out. Two weeks ago we began reading together, having little chats about psychology, interests, and our relationship (all positive). Then she started reading without me around… before I knew it, she finished and asked to see all the different devices available.
So, we looked at CB-Series options (we have a CB-3000 but aren’t too fond of it) up to the desirable (and expensive) Latowski belt. We agreed early on that a belt didn’t suit our lifestyle or interests… which narrowed things down. After discussing cleanliness, style, and security, we settled on either the Steelworxx Steelheart or Steelheart 2. Feedback from owners helped us decide it was what we wanted. Unfortunately, the price wasn’t quite in our immediate budget, so we agreed to wait until the third week of May (next week) to order.
Last Thursday, while reading Sarah Jameson’s book on teasing and denial, we came across a section about whispering a man’s biggest fantasies back to him. This sparked a discussion about my fantasies, leading me to write several out for her. Tuesday this past week was fun as we read them together, discussing why they interested me so much, and what felt realistic.
Last Wednesday morning, while showering after the gym, she asked how often I masturbate. I was somewhat honest and guessed 4-6 times a week. She seemed surprised—not that it happened often, but that she never noticed. We laughed about it, and I told her when and where I usually do… not thinking much of it at the time. Well, Wednesday night she tied me up again, but instead of reading to me, she teased my fantasies and experimented with several facets… and it was INCREDIBLE. As the evening wound down (without me climaxing), she suggested we start playing with male chastity using the honor system until we get the device. I replied that I had similar thoughts and wondered if we could start when we order it… She seemed to agree.
After releasing my from bondage, she spent most of the rest of the evening with me… which stopped me from finishing off what her teasing had started. Thursday morning she mentioned in passing that she enjoyed the previous night and thought it would be interesting to see how I felt waiting for the device. She added that she might let me have one last orgasm before locking it on me. My mind raced, realizing she meant starting the honor system NOW instead of when we ordered… meaning I had missed out on what turned out to be my “one last time” orgasm from Wednesday. I commented that it would be another week until we order, plus up to 4 weeks for delivery. Her response was simply: “yup, probably should be careful what you wish for… like I said, I might give you one before we lock it on you…”
So far I have managed (just barely) on the honor system… but it isn’t easy at all. This is especially true because she has been in nymphomaniac mode for the past 3 days… teasing me to insanity. I am so frustrated, yet loving every second of it. Does it really take 4 weeks for a custom-sized device from Steelworxxx? I hope it’s A LOT less!!!!
Well, I think I need to go wake her up from her nap in a very special way…