I’m new here and want to be completely honest because I need an honest answer.
I’ve been married for thirty years, never strayed with another woman, but like any man, I have fantasies and masturbate quite often. When I do, it feels as though I’ve cheated on my wife; a sense of letdown comes over me.
So I looked into male chastity online. There are plenty of fanciful stories from other men that resonate with me, along with some stuff I find rather unsavory and tend to avoid.
Like most guys, I enjoy denial and the hope for things just out of reach. I suppose I also like being somewhat under my wife’s thumb, wrapped around her finger.
I don’t think she fully grasps this yet, but now that I’m locked up, I no longer masturbate. The anticipation makes our intimacy more thrilling for me, and I know she enjoys it too.
There’s nothing wrong with this arrangement; we are married, a man and woman made for each other. Even though it can be frustrating at times, being locked up brings me a sense of freedom.
She holds the key alone, and I want her to actively enjoy knowing that her valuables—me—are exactly where they belong: under lock and key.
For my part, holding out her hand and taking the key felt like giving myself to her in a new way. The key is usually around her neck (though not always), and I quite like seeing it there.
We don’t use a standard padlock; we bought a miniature heart-shaped brass one. It means every time I’m showering, my wife’s heart protects me, which I love. Also, when she locks me up, she has to physically use the key herself.
I truly hope I never have to play solo again because I adore her.
So, if any women are reading this, please tell me: how do you feel about locking your men? Is it just a duty, or does having a man give himself to you make him more loved?
The truth is, I couldn’t live without her; she is my everything. She stood by me when I got leukemia.
I find women are very strong and that they truly shape a man.
Regards, Steve