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I’m looking for some thoughts on a question of mine. My wife and I communicate well regarding our chastity dynamic. When she decides to keep me caged or grant me release, I frequently ask about her reasoning. Often enough, she says she did it because that’s what she thinks I want.
My suspicion is that eventually she’ll start making choices based more on her own preferences. If that shift occurs, the old warning ‘be careful what you wish for’ will feel more relevant. So here is my question: What drives other key holders when they make chastity decisions with their husbands? Does your motivation evolve as you settle into the role?