Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I'm not completely denied, but so far this year my Wife (KH) has allowed me to cum five times. I brought up MC and wearing a cage last August, and my Wife loved the idea. She told me that she now controls my penis and I get an orgasm when she wants me to have one. She also said this is how it will be from now on. I wear a cage 95% of the time. It only comes off for shaving and cleaning... Maybe three or four times a week, for ten to twenty minutes... The rest of the time I'm caged...

My Mistress is online, but it is permanent. She can contact me at any time to ensure it stays on. For cleaning or shaving she does so while watching. When finished and relocked the key goes back into a plastic container in the freezer. I have been locked since August 15, 2016. Approaching three years in another couple of months. I have allowed one orgasm since the new year.

Of course it depends on definitions. I've been sealed into my device for over nine months now. As for how? My wife/mistress wanted a longer lockup. Rather than using the ksafe (timer safe) I suggested a seal, so she would have to make a positive decision to unlock me. Thought it would be just a few weeks. Turns out not.

The first day was locked on by myself. The reason is because I am a habitual masturbater and basically that was cheating on my wife. On the first day I gave her the keys and confessed to what I had been doing for the past 15 years. She told me to get used to the cage that was locked onto me. That was one year, six months, and two weeks ago. She said I will remain locked for the rest of my life. It only comes off to clean and shave then it's right back on. During the time it is off I'm chained to the wall and handcuffed; that's the only time it is unlocked and she stands there watching. I knew she would be upset with me, but thought she might let me out after a day or two. I was wrong. She had me buy a biometric safe that only she can unlock and that's where the keys are. She has allowed me three ruined orgasms while wearing the cage. No PIV. The last ruined orgasm was in July of last year. I have been locked since November 15th, 2017.

I have been locked and denied for two years. My Lady has told me that she hasn't felt inclined to consider when she might let me have an orgasm or when she might next allow an erection... with both those statements adding.... or IF.. She said the length of denial was gradually extended each time it happened until she decided that time had become indefinite. That was an unexpected outcome when I first asked her to be my KH or when she first fully took charge. As for ... Am I being denied erections and/or orgasms permanently.... I really do not know. But for me, it does feel better this way.

> Doczilla421 said: > The first day was locked on by myself. The reason is because I am a habitual masturbater and basically that was cheating on my wife. On the first day I gave her the keys and confessed to what I had been doing for the past 15 years. She told me to get used to the cage that was locked onto me. That was one year, six months, and two weeks ago. She said I will remain locked for the rest of my life. > It only comes off to clean and shave then it's right back on. During the time it is off I'm chained to the wall and handcuffed; that's the only time it is unlocked and she stands there watching. > I knew she would be upset with me, but thought she might let me out after a day or two. I was wrong. She had me buy a biometric safe that only she can unlock and that's where the keys are. She has allowed me three ruined orgasms while wearing the cage. No PIV. The last ruined orgasm was in July of last year. I have been locked since November 15th, 2017. > Click to expand... Impressive: is anything else happening between you and your Wife regarding sex or affection?

I don't think I'll ever be locked permanently, but I've been wrong about things before. This year I was told no more than six orgasms so far; I have had three.

I haven't been set a limit per year. Right now chastity length is up to my Wife and we haven't discussed this in detail recently: I think she wants me to pass my previous record of 20 days. To be honest, I fear discussing O limits or time lengths with her. It would not surprise me if I suggested permanent and she went for it.

> Giles_English said: > Definitions matter. I've been sealed in my device for over nine months now. How did it happen? My wife/mistress wanted a longer period of confinement. Instead of using the ksafe (timer safe), I proposed a seal so she would have to actively decide to unlock me. I expected just a few weeks, but that didn't last. > Click to expand... Wow! That shows excellent female authority. Quick question: could you explain what the seal is? Is it similar to applying JB Quickweld or some kind of putty around the lock area? Or are you referring to one of those sealing bolts?

> buildup said: > Impressive: is there anything else going on between you and your Wife concerning sex or affection? > Click to expand... She gets sexual pleasure from me using my mouth and vibrators. She enjoys cuddling and frequently reminds me of the reasons I am locked up. For me, there are no sexual releases. The last one happened in July of last year while wearing my cage. It was really difficult. She has told me not to even expect that again soon. I'm unsure if she is truly serious about this or just saying it, but almost a year has passed now. To be honest, the outlook doesn't look promising for me ever having another orgasm.

> Doczilla421 said: > The first day was locked on by me. The reason was because I am a habitual masturbater and basically that was cheating on my wife. At day one I gave her the keys and confessed to what I had been doing the past 15 years. She told me to get use to the cage that was locked on me. That was 1 year 6 months and 2 weeks ago. She told me that I will remain locked for the rest of my life. > It only comes off to clean and shave then it's right back on. During the time it's off I'm chained to the wall and handcuffed, that's the only time its unlocked and she stands there and watches. > I knew she would be upset with me, but I thought she might let me out after a day or two. I was wrong. She had me buy a biometric safe that only she can unlock and that's where the keys are. She has allowed me 3 ruined orgasms with the cage on. No PIV. Last ruined orgasms was July last year. I have been locked since Nov 15th 2017. > Click to expand... Wow! What a beautiful, powerful woman. Such control. Thanks for sharing.

> Doczilla421 said: > She gets sexually pleasured by me with my mouth and vibrators. She likes to cuddle and remind me a lot of why I'm locked up. No sexual releases for me. The last time was in July of last year with my cage on. It really sucked. She has told me not to even expect that anymore. I don't know if she is really serious about that or not but it's been almost a year now. I just know it doesn't look good for me to ever have an orgasm again. > Click to expand... How would you feel if she denied you pleasuring her by mouth? That's what would happen to me if I were put into chastity permanently. So that's another reason I fear permanent. When i'm in chastity my Wife likes to invoke total pussy denial.

> buildup said: > I haven't been set a limit per year. Right now chastity length is up to my Wife and we haven't discussed this in detail recently: I think she wants me to pass my previous record of 20 days. To be honest I fear discussing O limits or time lengths with her. It would not surprise me if I suggested permanent she would go for it. > Click to expand... Yeah, don't suggest it. It's like playing with fire. What if you said, "Gosh, I am really surprised at the number of women who keep men locked permanently with no releases, no orgasms, nothing. I thought that was merely the stuff of fantasy. Glad that's not us." (Then she does it to you anyway.) I didn't suggest it to my wife except she always knew she had ultimate power over me. She just didn't want to go through the cycles of lock and release and sometimes slide into vanilla then me (not a lot but still) masturbating or not doing housework. So she up and decided forever locked. I begged and tried to say it was not possible, just a fantasy. But she reminded me of my slave status. I don't know how to feel about it. I am turned on but saddened at the same time. I desperately want to PIV fuck.

> buildup said: > How would you feel if she denied you pleasuring her by mouth? That's what would happen to me if I were put into chastity permanently. So that's another reason I fear permanent. When i'm in chastity my Wife likes to invoke total pussy denial. > Click to expand... I dont think that would happen. She enjoys it too much. If it did, then All I could do is pleasure her with a vib.

> Slave to Wife said: > Yeah, don't suggest it. It's like playing with fire. What if you said, "Gosh, I am really surprised at the number of women who keep men locked permanently with no releases, no orgasms, nothing. I thought that was merely the stuff of fantasy. Glad that's not us." > (Then she does it to you anyway.) > I didn't suggest it to my wife except she always knew she had ultimate power over me. She just didn't want to go through the cycles of lock and release and sometimes slide into vanilla then me (not a lot but still) masturbating or not doing housework. So she up and decided forever locked. I begged and tried to say it was not possible, just a fantasy. But she reminded me of my slave status. I don't know how to feel about it. I am turned on but saddened at the same time. I desperately want to PIV fuck. > Click to expand... Yeah that's me now. Locked and no pleasure for me. I would do anything to be able to be inside her again. This dam cage is really escape proof, I can't even pull it out.

> buildup said: > I haven't been set a limit per year. Right now chastity length is up to my Wife and we haven't discussed this in detail recently: I think she wants me to pass my previous record of 20 days. To be honest I fear discussing O limits or time lengths with her. It would not surprise me if I suggested permanent she would go for it. > Click to expand... Buildup it is best not to discuss it with her, i mean if she is not already thinking about it, don't plant the seed. I did, and i have had only 1 O since the new year. [[Image: ofbbtkl7jhbvlehz2223.png]](the referenced community page)

> Doczilla421 said: > Yeah that's me now. Locked and no pleasure for me. I would do anything to be able to be inside her again. This dam cage is really escape proof, I can't even pull it out. > Click to expand... Yes they do like to make sure there is no way to get it off, don't they [[Image: ofbbtkl7jhbvlehz2223.png]](the referenced community page)

> Doczilla421 said: > Yeah that's me now. Locked and no pleasure for me. I would do anything to be able to be inside her again. This dam cage is really escape proof, I can't even pull it out. > Click to expand... Wow! See, I admire and respect such female power, but it sucks for the slave. It seems most permanent chastity victims didn't go out and ask for it. What is your cage? Mine is a Queen's Keep and a little padlock.

> Slave to Wife said: > Wow! See, I admire and respect such female power, but it sucks for the slave. It seems most permanent chastity victims didn't go out and ask for it. What is your cage? Mine is a Queen's Keep and a little padlock. > Click to expand... It's a Lori 2a. There is no padlock, just security screws. They have a special pattern that only her key will unlock it. You can't mess with it because its recessed and I think it's a softer medal and the head will strip out if messed with. Some people on here have suggested that I try cutting it off. That's impossible cause of the heat produced and it's made from 316 stainless steel. Might as well be made out of a diamond. It's not coming off unless she removes it. That's not going to happen.

IMO, cutting it off seems to violate the notion of letting a woman control a man and his orgasms. The deal is we let them decide the time length. Once in a while, they decide on permanent chastity. So we must abide no matter how it truly sucks. That's crazy hot what she has done to you, but I hope you will get real-life relief soon.