Introductions discussion

Here is a little background on me. About four years back, I stumbled upon an interest in chastity. Since my teens, I’ve been dealing with chronic masturbation; now at age forty and nine years into marriage, the prospect of handing over control of my orgasms to her really appealed to me. The standard plastic device wasn’t great for long-term wear, lasting only a day or two max. The issue is that I’m a grower and nearly 8 inches when erect, so ball-ring styles caused severe pain during night erections, making sleep difficult. I proposed trying a PA-5000 along with getting pierced; she said yes, and after healing for a few months, we started using the cage. Although even their biggest tube feels slightly tight on me, I managed to wear it continuously for just over thirty days. It was still not quite comfortable enough though. A couple of months ago, I bought a custom evotions wearable and have worn it since delivery! It’s somewhat bulky when flaccid, so I use panties with a front pouch that secures the cage snugly against my body, minimizing pull on the piercing. I’m joining up here to share what I’ve learned and hope to pick up tips from your stories. Looking forward to seeing you all around.