I don’t share updates often, but I wanted to drop in with a quick note. My wife and I treat chastity as something we enjoy together; it isn’t about strict Female Leadership or those kinds of dynamics for us. She prefers traditional masculinity rather than anything sissy-like. Aside from my time locked up in the cage and her managing when I reach orgasm, our daily life remains quite standard. Ha.
December is always incredibly busy for us—so much so that work-related stress makes me dread it. Our careers have often interfered with truly enjoying the holidays over the last five or six years, which was where this idea began. We considered an extended period of being locked up (at least by our standards) to help smooth things out. Usually, she keeps me confined for about three weeks at a time; then I get released and we enjoy some freedom for a week before going back in.
This year, I was placed into the cage on November 30th night…and I haven’t been unlocked since! No ruined orgasms either—I’ve kept my chastity device on without even opening it. It’s been intense. December went much better because I became more helpful and willing to assist; she absolutely loved that, as did I.
I’m feeling very horny and desperate to cum… the longest stretch before this was 25 days. Today is a major milestone: day 40!!! We chose it partly to poke fun at the “40 Days and 40 Nights” movie reference. From here on out, she decides when I finally get released; I suspect it won’t be long since we both need PIV! Haha.
For us personally, this is a significant achievement, and I just had to share how proud we are of ourselves. I fully expected her to give in… but she stayed firm despite my pleas some nights! Ha.
So there you have it—new territory for our dynamic. She really enjoyed it; I assume longer confinement periods will become more common now, likely with occasional brief unlocks for PIV before returning to the cage again. Who knows what’s next.