I figured I’d ask. I’ve come across some solid insights from the feminized men here, each for their own reasons. It’s not common to hear much about chastity without all the extra bells and whistles, if you will.
To keep it short: My wife and our girlfriend had a dynamic where she was the sadist catering to my masochism. We relocated, but our girlfriend couldn’t make the move as we’d hoped. That left me with no outlet for my sexual needs, while my wife found herself without her usual female partner.
I’ve been denied intercourse for over 20 years now. It started when our dynamic shifted from threesomes centered on me to me becoming more of an accessory to the two women.
My wife doesn’t hide that she doesn’t need my penis; her best climaxes come from her vibrator. She does let me perform oral sex as a special treat, though. Chastity was a perfect fit because I’m too old for the heavy physical punishment I used to endure, yet I can still satisfy my masochistic side without whips or CBT. Wearing a cage around the clock gives me just enough of that D/s flavor that suits me.
Now, she doesn’t have to deal with my messy semen, and she worries less about whether I’ve climaxed compared to her own pleasure. The result? We’re having more sex, and she’s enjoying more frequent, higher-quality multiple orgasms. Chastity meets all our sexual needs, with orgasm denial and teasing taking center stage. Outside the bedroom, we act like a normal couple: my wife is the traditional submissive partner, and I’m the head of household, but nothing happens without her say-so.
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That’s our story. What about you? How did chastity come into your lives?