I shared a post yesterday on my blog about incorporating porn into our chastity routine. I was curious to see if others do something similar or have suggestions? (I wasn’t sure how to embed the video directly, so click the link below to watch it—it’s quite arousing!)
Jane xxx The denial porn tease One of the biggest surprises regarding chastity has been how my perspective on certain types of porn has shifted. Reflecting back, I can say that I genuinely disliked porn before; this was mostly due to insecurity—I felt like all those flawless actresses were what my husband wanted to gaze at and be with instead of me. Although I still don’t care for MOST porn (it’s often terrible, and why the excessive gynaecological close-ups? It doesn’t feel sexy), having my hubby caged and/or denied has fostered a sense of intimacy. I feel much more desired now that he is so focused on me, which helped me open up to enjoying it myself. Plus, there’s the added bonus: if he wants to watch while in his cage, it can be painful for him lol. I primarily watch on Tumblr because it takes a few weeks to get over the initial ‘OMFG!’ reaction as your brain learns to filter better! We share content that turns us both on and think the other would appreciate on our private shared tumblr blog. It’s lovely scrolling through these together while cuddling, playing, and laughing. However, I’ve also started using it about once a week to tease him during orgasm denial sessions. The video above is a perfect example of what I’d use with him, so I wanted to share it along with some examples of how I apply it. We play the video on a laptop or tablet (depending on how hands-free I need to be! lol). I start it before unlocking him while cuddling up close. I’ll play with his caged cock, kissing and rubbing his nipples. I love watching his cock strain against the cage. Meanwhile, I comment on the women in the video—what I like about them, what techniques are hot—for instance. At this point, I get my vibe going and become very aroused while occasionally playing with him too. Usually, if it’s porn that will turn HIM on, I finally let him out (though I might leave the base ring on to keep his erection firm). Then I like to bring him close but hold onto his cock as I cum, mixing this sensation with snuggling and teasing. So, using something like the video above, I focus on two main points: the fact that all those men get to ejaculate while my husband is denied:
- Oh god darling, can you imagine how good that would feel?
- Look at him cumming so hard; do you remember what it feels like?
- Would you like to use me in this way?
- Would you like me to suck and lick your cock just like that, darling? Sorry, you haven’t earned that yet, but you can lick me (and send him down). The other aspect I used with this video is the presence of so many large cocks (I’m surprisingly fond of them). So I use lines such as:
- Oh darling, look how big his cock is; if yours were that size, I’d make you cum constantly.
- I love looking at large cocks now; see what your cage has done to me?
- I wonder what it feels like having a cock of that magnitude inside me.
- A cock that big wouldn’t even fit in the cage.
- (Whispering) ‘I’m not joking, I wish you were bigger right now.’
- ‘When I masturbate, sometimes I think about large cocks.’
- Put on the strap-on; I need something substantial inside me. A few twists Uncage him but leave the ring on before starting the video. Then scold him for getting hard looking at other girls (try not to touch his cock directly, but whisper in his ear). Go all out on his nipples and use your vibe—all of this should get him aroused. Of course, if he DOESN’T get hard, you can simply say, ‘Oh honey, it seems like you don’t want it today!’ and lock him back up! Other examples The absolute best tease-and-ruin handjob video at the moment—you could just watch this one and copy its method to become a master (mistress…?) of teasing!
Here’s a compilation of edging and ruin videos in the same style as the top video—great for playing on in the background! (Just be aware that not all have sound, so don’t get caught out). Both are really hot imo!
Getting really kinky with it… The kinkiest thing we do involving porn is indulging my fascination with big cocks. For whatever reason, we both find teasing him about his size arousing. A few times I’ve had him find a ‘big cock’ compilation for us to watch together while I hold him… basically comparing their sizes. This usually ends up in one of two ways. Either I get him to go down on me while knowing I’m still watching the video, using lines like: ‘Oh darling, it’s good that I’ve discovered you’re so skilled with your tongue; it makes up for a bit for your small cock’—cumming from his licking while doing this is incredibly hot. The other option is we now have a very large strap-on cock (we recently named it ‘Adonis’ so I can say, ‘I want Adonis in me’, lol). Whether he’s still caged or free, he fucks the brains out of her with that device. It’s hard to describe how hot this feels. Firstly, I now cum repeatedly just from being penetrated. This turns him on SO much, and then, since he can’t ejaculate, he remains unbelievably horny… which makes him fuck me even harder (great exercise too; it’s seriously getting him fit!). Some videos you might want to try if this appeals: (starts loud! but lots of girls telling the guy how big he is, which for some reason I find very hot) (queen of deepthroat according to my husband; this married couple are quite something!) Anyway, I hope you find some of this fun!