R-Locked Personal Abstinence

Greetings everyone and welcome to my chastity journey! A quick intro on why I’m sporting a cage right now… I wouldn’t classify myself as addicted to masturbation or porn (perhaps that’s just denial), but they are compulsions rooted since around age 11 (now 30). I’ve been single for quite some time. I’ve tried self-locking before, though it didn’t go perfectly because I was too lenient with myself at times; I also denied myself masturbation and porn for several months prior to this, but eventually reverted to old habits. I want to break free from that cycle now. I dislike feeling “lazy” and “uncreative” after an orgasm, and I resent the sense that I’m giving up on finding a real relationship while watching others have sex and get off. This might look like a standard “no fap” challenge, but even without a Key Holder (KH), there’s a distinct “loss of control”: my erection changes and I can’t just masturbate as usual. Plus, from past experience, wearing a cage provides an “edge” sensation that is absent when not locked up. The concept of Female Led Relationship (FLR) also appeals to me, so this could serve as good practice if I’m lucky enough to meet someone who agrees with the dynamic. At minimum, I want to be someone who doesn’t waste an orgasm on a screen but instead experiences a “little death” through another person’s pleasure. Goals: No more solo masturbation leading to full orgasm ever again No more porn Wear a cage as much as possible Rules: No masturbation to full orgasm No ruined orgasm No edging No porn Always wear the cage at home If anyone has done something similar, feel free to PM me with tips or recommendations. I plan to update periodically; posts might just be “Hey new record for time in a cage” or “1 month without masturbation!” Thanks for reading! -R