a new member joins...

hi everyone, i’ve moved over from CM mainly to get help, guidance, information and to share my chastity journey. a bit about me: i’m rob, living with my wife/goddess of more than ten years in the U.K. my interest in fetishes started when i was a late teen—femdom, leather/pvc, boots etc.—so you get the picture. i told my girlfriend back then and it didn’t go down well; she did wear a pVC nurses dress in bed occasionally but that phase ended quickly and i didn’t respect her effort as much as i should have. our sex life was hit or miss—mostly miss—with very different libido levels between us. thenter came me buying my own fetishwear which wasn’t popular, but like i’ve tried to explain, im a fetish addict who wears it while self-pleasuring. fast forward to last year when i realized these fetishes were harming our marriage and needed fixing before we passed the point of no return. so i brought up chastity; my reasoning was that denying me would stop what i do and might lower my sex drive closer in sync with hers, but she said no again. i also have a habit of bending my penis downwards at night when erect (happens while sleeping until it wakes me), which led to permanent bending when hard (peyronies disease). being stubborn, i bought some cheap models to try (self-locking) but had trouble with them. so i went semi-custom with a piece from MCN and his explorer model. after lots of trials and breaking in, i think i’ve finally cracked it.