After saying goodbye to the wonderful folks here, I realized that after being locked up for years, my drive was as high as a toad’s. I spent every day rubbing myself raw. Nighttime brought frequent erections that kept me awake until I finally ejaculated; sometimes it took nearly an hour. This is because I wasn’t accustomed to reaching climax often and didn’t have many users helping me masturbate like my wife used to do.
I discarded hundreds of dollars’ worth of cages, including expensive name brands, custom pieces, and mass-produced knockoffs. I found a lovely small plastic cage that included four rings and, crucially, a pin for the hole where the cabinet lock usually sits. This allows me to use my extensive collection of chastity cage locks or simply insert the pin into the keyhole and secure it with a plastic lock. It stays steady without wobbling thanks to the pin and plastic hardware.
My hesitation regarding cheap cabinet locks stems from one breaking on me before. It didn’t get stuck, but I could turn the outer part while the inner turning piece had separated. Fortunately, that cage had the lock positioned on top where I could see it. I managed to manually adjust the end of the mechanism and remove it. Since then, I’ve lost trust in those locks, even the pricey German ones. If you wear a device 24/7, worrying about retrieving it if the key breaks is real concern. How do you reach the end of the key? Wearing an HT Nub meant pushing my balls through the opening wasn’t an option.
My wife and I use a simple method: we write down the serial number on a small pad noting which lock I’m wearing. Later, when she wants to remove it for sex, she verifies that original serial number. I appreciate this because I can easily get out of it while away from home by using one of my 100 collected knives to cut the lock open.
Sex remains primarily for my wife’s enjoyment, but sometimes she enjoys giving me ruined orgasms, and on special occasions, full ones. Since we are celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary, I am certain to cum at least once this year. It feels strange yet comfortable having a cage with controlled releases. No more waking up stiff. My sleep has improved significantly. My libido was very high due to my last medication—a side effect that forced me to switch drugs; now I’m still not feeling overly aroused. If I’m not horny, she can deny me an orgasm. With only seven months left until our anniversary, perhaps I will get my release then.
Anyway, it is good to be back. For those curious, my penis returned to normal size after being so small that few chastity divice worked for me completely before. Now a tiny cage works perfectly.