Like everyone else (you dirty-minded folks!) I’ve been lurking here for a good number of years. I truly wish more people would jump in, just to validate my little fetish, but it feels like we’re quite an exclusive club.
We are pretty much the picture of vanilla life: white picket fence, church-going, two cars parked out front. But she knows about this secret. She actually likes it … a little bit. She just won’t admit it openly.
She is starting to enjoy it when I wait for her lead. That’s as far as I’ve managed in ten years. She puts up with the several devices that are mostly collecting dust in our toy box, but she can’t push past that point.
How do I get her to ask me to wear the device? Or should I take charge? Keep in mind she worries I’ll be mugged/hit by a car/struck by lightning while wearing it, and that our terrible secret will be exposed. Personally, I’d welcome a lightning strike at this point! Should I stand by and wait another ten years? Or does someone have the perfect line for me to solve the whole issue? PLEASE GIVE ME THE LINE!
Otherwise, we actually have quite a good sex life:-) Maybe I should just leave it as is. Good enough is good, right?? The Woody Canuck