Any self-locking men whose partners are on board?

If I forget to secure the device, a moment of weakness might lead me to edge. I don’t usually aim for an orgasm (O), but it seems men aren’t as skilled at edging as some wives realize; we tend to go too far. My wife doesn’t insist on my being locked up and sometimes doesn’t grasp why I want the cage at night, so I handle that myself. On the rare occasions I head out with friends in the evening, she asks if I’m wearing it and smiles when I confirm. Those moments are lovely. Is anyone else managing their own locking while their wife approves of the lifestyle? The irony is that this works for me. For instance, yesterday we had a great edging session where I didn’t lock up. This morning my wife left early for sports (a rare occurrence), and I was free to decide. After much deliberation, my brain lost the argument, and I edged three times. Without the cage, I would have kept going until an accident or at least a ruined orgasm occurred, but I stopped there and put the device on. Once it was secured, temptation vanished even though I held the key. The odd part is that during the first 60 days of this journey, my urge to touch myself was much weaker; for a while, it felt like I had lost both the addiction and desire for self-pleasure. However, if I am locked, I stay locked, despite having access to the key and always seeking permission from my wife to unlock. Has anyone else experienced something similar?