I receive massages from time to time, and it’s become more regular in the last few months. At first, my owner wouldn’t let me uncage, but I could wear boxer briefs instead of being fully restrained. Later that changed to standard briefs, then just basic panties (men’s underwear was out). Around this same period, I discovered a fantastic masseuse and decided to go without any undergarments. I reasoned she was skilled enough to manage the sheets so it wouldn’t be a problem; wearing panties might have felt awkward instead. Plus, since I’ve accepted that my cage is part of my identity, if it happened to show, no big deal.
Fortunately, I was correct—she handled everything beautifully without ever exposing my genital area. However, something changed today. It’s not certain, but she seemed to catch a quick look at the device twice and her forearm grazed it afterward. She said nothing, which is typical since she can be socially awkward anyway. Also, having some cane scars might mean she wasn’t surprised (I live in Austin).
This isn’t for show or wank material; I don’t want to drag others into my world. Still, I felt reassured that it didn’t bother her—or me—and perhaps she barely noticed.
How do you all manage this?