Advice needed on encouraging my key holder to give more orders while I am in chastity

I’ve been living in chastity since May last year. My key holder and I are enjoying it thoroughly; I love that feeling of being locked up for a week or so before any release, followed by going back into my device until the next time. I’m really trying to let her know how badly I want her to order me around. She is afraid of seeming mean to me, and besides telling her I find it a turn-on when she gives orders, I didn’t have much else to say initially. It seems like she’s warming up to ordering me around more often, but has anyone else run into this? Did you ever find a remedy that helped put your key holder at ease with giving orders? I feel like offering ideas and coming up with tasks is kind of topping from the bottom, which my KH agrees with. So I’ve changed strategy to just being extra helpful and doing things she knows she’ll appreciate. Has anyone else tried something similar to encourage their key holder to start giving them tasks and orders?