Wish I had found out about it ages back

It’s been just ten days in so far, and being kept from an orgasm (well…ejaculation at least - see below) has truly changed things for me. I can now give my partner all the extra sex he’d been requesting, which is perhaps a bit much as it turns out—the catch with chastity in our gay relationship is that he requires three days to recharge). We’ve experienced the best intimacy we have had across 18 years together. This morning, while holding his cock and causing me to spasm involuntarily for over a minute, I realized a man can indeed reach an orgasm without ejaculating. It’s quite useful when he is stuck in that middle of his recharge period. If only I could stop hesitating and order a device so I can give up control, because this whole not touching myself routine is really hard work.