When my wife and I decided to try living together seven years ago, we made some huge changes. I moved over 7292 miles (11735.34 km) just to be with her—not even in her home country. To say she was special for me is an understatement. We managed to create two amazing kids and buy and redo a wonderful house in Chile’s capital.
I felt that over the years our love changed, and there was no longer any sexual desire, though I had the impression the marriage would last.
Yesterday, I had an intimate conversation with my wife where she opened up about seeing divorce coming:cry: and being pretty convinced this is just the path our marriage will take. I was shocked and surprised; I asked if she was already planning it or had spoken to lawyers, and she said no, she was simply resigned and didn’t know how to revive our marriage before going down that road. She told me I humiliated her in front of strangers and friends so many times that she did not want to live like that anymore, nor have our children growing up seeing us fight all the time. Yes, I was grumpy ALL the time, and yes we were fighting a lot, but I didn’t see it as extreme.
Why bother writing this into a forum related to Male Chastity? Because fast forward to today, 45 days after I stopped masturbating. We regained the sparkle; we touch each other all day, we LOVE each other, we have fun and are extremely happy. All the “over Masturbators” who accidentally come across this forum should read how life-changing it can be simply letting your testosterone levels go back to a normal level. I am so excited right now—happy, full of energy—and I will share more in my journal today. If you have similar stories, I am sure it would be great for newbies to read here. So long, Cycling2Work If you were where I was 46 days ago, make the change in your life. You don’t NEED a device for it. As soon as you realize how damaging the PMO (porn masturbation Orgasm) combination is, you CAN stop.