Hello, Here is my daily log of living in chastity. I finally got my wife to accept a chastity cage on July 19, 2015. For at least two months prior to that date, I had been debating how to bring it up to her. I feel like I handled the approach correctly because things are turning out better than expected. My wife is naturally open-minded, so I knew she would agree if I presented solid reasons for wearing a cage. One of my main arguments was that I need help controlling my masturbation habits. By letting her control this aspect, I believed it would make me a more attentive husband, patient, less lazy, and focused all my sexual energy on her. Before showing her the device on July 19th, we had several discussions about chastity, so I was prepared for how she might react. Her response was very positive. During a pleasant dinner at home that evening, after eating, I presented her with two keys to my lock in a small box. She seemed slightly surprised and wasn’t sure how to respond immediately. She asked for a minute to process everything. Then she agreed it was a good idea but mentioned she would need some time to adjust. I will update tomorrow.
Continuing the story: Afterward, I showed her the new cage. She laughed a little and thought it looked quite nice. We spent the rest of the evening discussing everything related to **chastity** and how she would benefit from me wearing the device. She also mentioned that she makes no promise about keeping this secret; since she isn't great at holding secrets, her best friends might find out. I told her I was willing to take that risk because I am serious about it. Additionally, if she is my KeyHolder (KH), I cannot come complaining and demanding the **key** back just because of minor issues with the cage. She explained that she has a busy job and doesn't have time to manage complaints over something I brought into her sphere. A bit of background on us: we have been together for 12 years and married since October 2014. My work requires me to travel frequently as part of a service company, while my wife owns a jewelry store, which she has run for about a year now. I am naturally somewhat **submissive**, but because she runs her own business, she has evolved into a more **dominant** figure in both her career and personal life, which I really enjoy. That night when I introduced the cage, we also noticed shifts in how she speaks and gives orders. She is becoming more direct and demanding. She admitted feeling more dominant herself and expecting more from me regarding household chores and other duties. So, I told my wife that I appreciate her **dominant** side and hope it continues. She confessed she sometimes feels a bit guilty about treating me this way, but our conversation helped ease those feelings. We agreed that I would handle all the home chores to ensure the house is clean when she returns. We ended the night relaxing on the couch watching TV. She kept my **lock**ed in for the night and we did not have sex. I had hoped we might, perhaps because there was too much excitement for one evening. Regarding our sexual relationship: we generally have sex once every two weeks. It is good but not perfect. In bed, she remains very dominant; often she has several orgasms and stops before I can reach mine. This leaves me to masturbate in the mornings daily. Fast forward a bit. For the past two months, I have worn my **chastity cage** nearly 24/7. It is 'almost' because sometimes she forgets to re-lock me after sex, or I leave for work without it in the morning. She has told me not to pressure her into locking me if she forgets; I shouldn't ask for it then. However, most of the time, she puts the cage back on when she gets home. When I am uncaged, I do masturbate. Recently things have improved as she becomes stricter with me. Last week, she kept me locked 24/7. We are having sex more frequently now, about twice a week. Since wearing the **chastity** device consistently, I manage to orgasm every time we connect, which is amazing. She is also very happy that domestic duties have fallen to me, allowing her to relax after work. Another thing I really like is that she demands more from me, such as massages and special dinners. Over the past month, I started opening the door when she arrives and taking all her bags. Then I remove her shoes and ask if she needs a foot massage since she works in heels all day. I am sure many of you know that wearing a **chastity cage** 24/7 involves thinking about more than just sex. Consequently, I rarely watch porn now, have more energy, and my life feels more organized. I also feel happier and love my wife more every single day. Anyway, that is where things stand currently.
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