Advancing to the Next Stage

During the year and a half that I’ve been using chastity, the communication my wife and I have had around it has been steadily evolving. My chastity (I’m locked almost all the time now) began with me having the key. At some point my wife agreed to wear a key as well, which she does consistently, but I always kept one too. I’ve used mine to remove the cage for showering or shaving and when I wanted to switch from one cage to another. A few days ago I initiated yet another chastity conversation. A big change since we started with chastity is that now such conversations don’t carry much emotional charge. I’m certainly much more relaxed about the whole thing. I guess that although I take chastity seriously, I don’t treat it too heavily, if you know what I mean. Anyway, I digress. She pointed out that she wears the key because it’s important to me and since I always have a key available, it’s not like I’m really locked up tight. That took me aback. She was right. “Well,” I said, “How about if you hold all the keys? (You know how many Chinese knock-offs use the same key).” “That might change things,” she said thoughtfully. I made a pile of the keys and put them on her nightstand, and I wonder how that may affect our dynamic. I don’t think it’s connected directly, but this morning was very passionate, with me helping her to an orgasm using everything including a vibrator at her request. The best possible change would be if she becomes desirous of more frequent sexual intimacy. I would respond happily to such a shift because I am, after all, the HappilyLocked Man!