Greetings everyone and a Happy New Year to all.
I’m nearing the one-year mark (January 24) during which my wonderful Wife/Keyholder/Mistress has allowed me just ONE orgasm (back in last October). I must confess, I never anticipated such a total shut-down when we first began our “chastity” journey back in 2004. We had emerged from yet another long, sudden angst-ridden sexual break due to my constant topping-from-the-bottom habits. Men always believe they can outlast women, but those ladies can be quite the camel when it comes to endurance once they dig their heels in.
With that said, I broke down and humbly asked Her if She missed our chastity playtime. The response was simple: lock up. A few days later (January 23, 2012), we enjoyed great sex, and the instruction came to stay locked for another day…and so it continued with my pledge not to have any expectations, no pressure, and no demanding the key in a huff or using the emergency release just because I didn’t like how She was managing things. My year has been filled with rubbing Her back, worshipping and caring for Her feet, making snacks, keeping Her stocked with batteries for her vibrator, holding Her close while stimulating Her breasts, and kissing Her neck as She buzzes herself through hundreds of orgasms.
I’ve been permitted to anally milk myself and edge frequently. I’m also allowed to slip into a plug harness while wearing items like bodystockings, unitards with thigh highs, leather cuffs, and chokers as I pamper Her and grind against Her (though only occasionally)…resulting in just ONE orgasm via intercourse last October.
So here is my question: As a man, can I legitimately call this experience a “sexlife”? I’m curious to hear everyone’s thoughts. Interestingly, there was one five-day period when I was unlocked and I didn’t try to masturbate once, although by the final day the thought did cross my mind…I guess She has indeed “broken” me like a horse? All opinions are welcome.
Thanks! allaboutHer