Hi everyone, I’m doing the standard introduction round. I’ve been around this scene for a bit, though not entirely new to the platform—I’ve hung out here quietly for some time before finally deciding to join.
My partner and keyholder recently split up from me, so now I’m managing things on my own!:P
With no one else there to share ideas with, you’ll probably see more posts from me.. This is my first time experimenting with self-imposed chastity:- What methods do people use when they are the only ones involved? My resolve is strong, but I hit snags when I unlock just “to check something” or adjust things, then get aroused and find it hard to lock back up. It often happens at 4 AM; I wake up uncomfortable and fumble with my device while half-asleep. Usually, I hold out from most of the time release-wise, and as soon as I’m fully awake when this occurs, I re-lock myself immediately. Still, it feels somewhat like.. cheating?
I’ve also been testing a program called Virtual Master ( that I discovered recently (is linking allowed?). It’s enjoyable and straightforward once you grasp the syntax, though not quite rigid enough to completely stop me from doing what I want. Ultimately, it is still my own willpower governing me. Also, browsing through older discussions there suggests folks can become rather hooked on it—which makes sense; having a fully adjustable, albeit non-physical, dominant figure helps prevent looking too eager.
Sorry if that was a bit of a ramble.