Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife/KH is very new to chastity and this submissive side of me. She herself would classify herself as a sub as well which means she is pretty far out of her comfort zone. When we first start this, I messed up pretty badly and had extremely high expectations for how things would go which I projected onto her which wasn’t fair at all. She was new to all this, had no idea what to do. Didn’t even know what to say most times. So we shelved it until recently when I kept the mentality of going slow, and she tried really hard to learn about what I was hoping for. While she is still learning, she’s made huge leaps in this. Where 2 months ago she wouldnt even discuss me wearing a bra, she told me last night while teasing me that she was thinking of sending me to work in one! Basically what I’m getting at is that for some KHs, it doesn’t come natural to them and they put in a tremendous amount of effort so that we can enjoy this lifestyle. So I’d like to thank each and every KH who has put in the time and effort to learn about this. And for those starting out, please take your time in this. It can seem overwhelming, but if you take it slow, it will be easier. Communicate with your partner about wants and desires from both sides. And don’t be afraid to ask for help! If you guys or gals have any stories you’d like to share about the beginning when you were learning, or moments that made it click so to speak for you then please do! I’d love to hear them.