Greetings everyone,
I’m catherine, a 33-year-old French Canadian transexual. I’ve been reading around here for some time and felt it was the right moment to step forward and say hello.
It’s now four years since I officially started living as a woman. To clarify, this wasn’t forced upon me; I had come out as transgender when I was 15 (my mother mentioned she’d suspected it even earlier). I’m grateful for my wonderful mom who didn’t overreact but instead supported me through the process.
Nearly two years ago, that same dear lady passed away suddenly from a severe heart attack while holding her breath in my arms. We shared a home together, and losing her devastated me emotionally. After a period of deep depression, I met an incredible woman who eventually became my current Mistress.
At the time we connected, she had recently undergone leg surgery and couldn’t move around much at home. Because we’d become close friends, I began helping out with chores, cleaning for both her and her teenage daughter. From day one, I knew she was into BDSM, and while I understood the lifestyle (largely because I’ve always loved how the outfits look), I hadn’t really practiced it before.
It’s worth noting that we aren’t romantically involved—she has a lovely boyfriend, and I’m attracted to men myself. Gradually, she introduced me to the BDSM world, which I grew to appreciate. She felt my natural aptitude for housekeeping suited her perfectly, so we decided to pursue that dynamic. We purchased two practical uniforms for me (ideal for actual cleaning tasks as well as interacting with her vanilla boyfriend and daughter).
The most challenging phase was transitioning from best friends to a Mistress/maid arrangement. We remain close, but I now understand my position and show appropriate respect to her and her circle. Since she lives in a fairly conventional setting, we looked for discreet ways to maintain our dynamic outside the home—the solution turned out to be the chastity belt. Last October, we acquired a CB6000.
We started gradually, but now I have a regular routine: managing the house and serving her family. If I meet her expectations, I receive relief roughly every two weeks via “ruined orgasms” (a sensation I’m still getting used to). As a transgender woman, I haven’t fully embraced my current anatomy (I plan to get full SRS eventually), but staying chaste has had its ups and downs for me. My Mistress enjoys it greatly, noting that my submission has deepened and my duties are performed more effectively.
That’s all for now. I hope to make many good friends here. One additional note: I work as a cosmetician and makeup artist, so please don’t hesitate to ask if you have questions about cosmetics or beauty topics (I know transvestites and crossdressers might feel shy asking in person, but since I’m navigating similar waters, I’m happy to help).
See ya, xxxxxxxxx catherine